Welcome to couchsurfing Kamdhenudham! Hi Kamdhenudham You have made a really smart move..a HUGE congratulations on joining couchsurfing and as frequent user I would like to welcome you to this amazing community. First, some myths about this project DISpelled: You must host. NOT TRUE! Many people never host. It costs money. NOT TRUE! Donations are welcome. Under 25's only. NOT TRUE! 70, 80+ years welcome. You get a free toaster. NOT TRUE. Coffee machine With very few exceptions couchsurfing is about whatever you want it to be about: making friends, seeing places, cultural explorations, crazy parties and most importantly of all eating chocolate & ice cream with strangers. Studies show this has the same bonding effect as drinking alcohol. And as a bonus you remember what you did the next day. At it says in my profile when I started back in March 2008 I was worried this website would be full of desperate, weird and sad people. I was wrong, there are not many sad people, just a handful and they usually come from Germany (my father is german so I am allowed to say that). But seriously the site has a very useful referencing section and, like ebay, you can look up a couchsurfer's track record. I think it's always good to read references and highly recommend you do so if you choose to stay with or host someone. Even if you don't host or surf you may be in an area that is simply bursting with a social scene. Or you may live in antarctica where the fish and whales can make good friends. You can trust a penguin. Groups can be area, interest, activity or idea based and are a great way to meet people, make friends and build up some good references before you hit the road. You can find out more here: http://www.couchsurfing.com/groups.html How do you make the jump from online communication to real world contact? Well, a fully filled profile helps. Just take a look at some of the ones online. In mine I've mentioned that my aim in life is to be David Hasselhoff and that I like monkeys. Many people appreciate my single-mindedness to be an 80's icon and soft spot for hairy little people. I have to say that from personal experience and chats with others the biggest single thing people look at when reading a profile is.... PHOTOS. AND LOTS OF THEM! They don't care what you look like they just want to see who they are talking to, where you've been and what you like. If you are looking to be hosted in another country I noticed many hosts look at this first...it's the first step for many to bridge the gap between an email and a person. Here's a bit more on hosting and surfing http://www.couchsurfing.com/tips_for_hosts.html http://www.couchsurfing.com/tips_for_surfers.html I also highly recommend the hosting group where topics such as "my boyfriend is jealous I host" and "do i give my couchsurfers keys to my home" were recent discussions. I can send you the link to these topics if you wish. More here: http://www.couchsurfing.com/group.html?gid=1075 So that's it from me for now but consider yourself with a new couchsurfing friend! If you have ANY questions in the future (travelling, cuisine and relationship issues are my speciality) please feel free to get in touch. I realise that this might be in a few weeks or months but hey, who's counting! Don't hesitate to get back to me anytime you feel like it. And if you ever pass through my city, London, drop me an email. The city is amazing and the couchsurfing scene here is one of the best in the world. You can find the London group here: http://www.couchsurfing.com/group.html?gid=618 Good luck and may your travels be journeys in every sense of the word! Andreas =) Messages from SNUGGLER: |
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